i have edited the post to include "Yerkes–Dodson law" for anybody that wants to look it up, i would be very emotionally attached if i lost a mars bar , however if it was a Turkish Delight who cares.Trader Pat wrote: ↑Thu Oct 22, 2020 11:00 pmFor me the going in play just disappeared, I stopped doing it and stopped getting the urge to do it. No idea why!speedyhamster wrote: ↑Thu Oct 22, 2020 10:42 pmThat makes perfect sense to me as once the person goes above there emotional threshold, the brain will shut off the higher brain functions which seriously effects the ability to think straight .
But when your subconscious mind automatically handles this (in the zone) this will not be a problem.
But I stopped getting emotionally attached to the trades for I think 2 simple reasons. A better understanding of the market helped me make better decisions and see the big picture not just the runner I was trading. And secondly I reduced stakes right down, Its harder to get emotionally attached to a trade when you're risking the price of a mars bar!
It was just then a case of gradually increasing stakes, if I felt any way twitchy I reduced them again. Over time the stakes increased, and the attachment went away in most cases. I still sometimes get attached to a good trade though!
good advice on the gradual stakes