My inability to accept losses is the primary object preventing me from trading full-time. I am determined to overcome this mental barrier.
The more individual trades you make the more likely you are to have individual losses. If you treat these losses as a byproduct of successful trading and programme your brain to accept them, (this will take some time) once your brain has accepted this you will be fine. "I cannot win unless i lose"
I suspect you are upping the volume of your individual trades, therefore you are bound to have more individual losses.
Your expectations are the problem, partly fuelled by regular reports of long term winning traders and everything being rosy for all. Imagine if the opposite was reported and you were regularly reading reports of losing traders, i suspect you would feel better about your losses.
If everyone posted their true losses i suspect you would be saying " I am doing ok compared to lots of others"
I have been trading for 9 years, and if it helps last Sunday i lost £265 on 1 trade on the 3.35 at Ffos Las when Night Alliance trained by the good Doctor Newland was supported. - I bet you feel better already.
If we had a table of individual race losses and you found yourself towards the bottom of that table you would be happier "that you werent doing as bad as some"
Good luck.