I'll write this post and in a separate one I will do my best to explain what has been my life since October 2010. It's not a sob story!
I spend a lot of time working with new, novice, intermediate and experienced traders trying to help them move to the next step. There is a common approach I see in all levels and it is based on how they view the markets. Most, admittedly not all, have a eureka moment when I start to show them how they should be viewing them. This is just my honest and humble opinion, I am not suggesting it is the only way. What I will say is if you can start including this in your trading it should improve things. You may then integrate some of it into your method and improve from there.
I use KiSS, Keep it Simple Stupid! I also teach based on VARK, if you Google it you will get the information you require. It is very interesting and worth a read.
Most people learn in a visual style, the V in VARK! Therefore I try and create images for people to concentrate on. It isn't possible for me to describe the images now as there are many and it depends on the person. I will give an example of how the V method works.
We are all different ages so I will not offer a specific date from the past. Simply deduct 18 from your age and with the resulting year, try and remember what you did? There may be specific events which stand out but some may be lost. I have good news, they are never lost, you have just mislaid the location reference for you brain's filing system

You don't have to perform the next step unless you want to. I suggest you give it a go so you can start to convince yourself just how good your memory really is!
Find a photograph from that year. If you only have photographs from another year then use them, it still works. When you view that photo your brain will instantly find the memory reference number and you will recall lots of events. Also, a song playing on the radio can have a similar effect, the A in VARK but it is not so prevalent as the V method when you look at people as a whole.
So you can now understand that bad memory is actually a bad filing system and assuming your brain hasn't suffered a trauma, you are capable of it!
So on this subject of viewing things let me explain where a lot of people go wrong. Too many people tend to use intense focus on one indicator or signal. WOM, large orders queued on the ladder are a couple; I am sure you have your own.
Let's go back to the photo you have found. Imagine a highly magnified area of the image which basically displays nothing more than a lot of pixels/dots. If this was all you could see of the photo do you think it would help you recall the events associated with the photo? I would suggest the answer is a definite no!
So why not? The magnified image is displaying the same photo but it it is more intensely focused. Can you see, (please forgive the pun) what I mean now? Zooming in on one indicator (enter any one thing you intensely focus on) will distract you from seeing the whole picture. For picture replace it with market.
My advice. Step back and view the overall image more than you focus intensely on one area. I am not saying don't focus, I am saying use it to confirm something you have recognised in the overall view. Imagine that photo again, perhaps you want to zoom in to see a shirt logo, a car registration...you get the picture...bloody puns

Any feedback is welcomed, I will try and answer any questions.
JG