You dont need you laptop on permentently when you close down your VPS just use the cross at the top of the screen - that will disconnect you (your laptop) from it but leave the VPS running - along with Bet Angel and what ever else you have going.
The VPS its self only needs a restart every few weeks otherwise it can just be left running and you just log on and off when you want.
All the videos on automation can be found using this link
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=P ... 3A6C182236
There is a number of example files on the forum which you can download and use
http://www.betangel.com/forum/viewforum.php?f=43
If downloading any of those you need to be logged onto your VPS and open up IE on thier and navigate to the forum using that - otherwise you'll download them to your laptop then have to transfer the to your VPS via dropbox or similar
In the user guide click 'Quick links' and all the info needed on automation is at the top with further direct links to each section
https://www.betangel.com/user-guide/
That should get you started and keep you going for a while