Snopyman wrote: ↑Wed Jan 31, 2024 7:09 pm
Of course, I am aware that this is only the beginning, and considering my previous problems where the market annoys me and I start chasing the price, the rest you know how it ends for me
Tbh if you want a clearer picture you just have to look at your previous posts. I've had a glance at a couple of your opening ones in the meantime and can see why you feel annoyed and why you feel like you have no tolerance for losses.
How could you build any tolerance if you don't even have any losses? You basically had 98% strike rates on all your P&L's
here and your only losses came from chasing losses, which were probably a direct result of this imbalance, so basically your only real exposures to losses were traumatic experiences.
You simply have to accept that losses are an integral part of profitable trading, not only did you not need such high strike rates but they can also work against you. Imagine a trader being always right 100% of the time, it doesn't sound very healthy for the mind, does it, if he knows how to win but doesn't know how to lose. There has to be a level of maturity as well, and that is coming from someone that posted 1000 memes

We can't just throw a tantrum every time a trade goes against us like a spoiled brat or a dopamine addict, we have to man up to our mistakes as well.
If you are 27 like your profile suggests it would be pretty impressive if you could build more confidence going forward with this refined edge and I realize how difficult that is, since I was around a similar age when I started as well.
So I'm speaking from personal experience here, when I've sometimes remarked in the past that I needed more losses on my P&L as well it wasn't meant to be a humblebrag remark but a genuine "issue" that I saw, albeit a good one to have. What I think it means for me is you're not pushing the boundaries of your edge, you are effectively trading away some of the edge for a smoother trading process emotionally and mentally. I think it's OKAY to make this trade-off since everyone naturally gravitates towards their comfort zone, but it is not very efficient, even if it is pretty optimized. (These are similar terms but with nuanced differences, efficient meaning trading with minimal waste, and optimized meaning fine-tuning your trading for best performance.)
In any case, hopefully now you can get used to this new balance of 60-70% strike rates
