Derek27 wrote: ↑Tue Aug 17, 2021 6:39 pm
Once again, a cyclist comes down a narrow pavement, I step aside and he whizzes past without so much as a nod or thank you. I should have put my fist out and let him smack into it.
Where I am we have no such issues. I regularly have drivers waving me across when I'm on a central refuge in the middle of the road. Generally, people will greet you in passing when out for a walk.
When I lived in Brum it was different. Rude people. Car wheels nicked, car nicked, car vandalsed, 1 successful burglary, 1 interrupted burglary (luckily they scarpered as I tried to get into my house).
Thats the dynamic. Squish people together and they get ambivalent about others, or criminal. And I've always thought behaviour is self-perpetuating. Hate breeds hate, love breeds love. But being nice is difficult in a city.
You're going to tell me you live in a quiet village now aren't you? And the cyclist was the local vicar!
